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#30159 - 12/07/03 11:51 PM Question...
AMC_Snare_Buddy Offline


Registered: 04/14/03
Loc: Amherst (Near Cleveland) Ohio
There is girl on our line that is now a senior, and has been bass one for a while. She is poorly motivated, admitted she doesn't like to play, and last week skipped rehearsal because she was "sick." (she left school third period.) Many people in the line do not like her, and she has alienated herself from them. She has been making poor personal decisions that annoy others. Should we keep her in the line or replace. That is what I'm going to have to advise my director on. Any advice would be great.

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#30160 - 12/07/03 11:56 PM Re: Question... [Re: AMC_Snare_Buddy]
LHSsl03 Offline


Registered: 06/11/03
Loc: Texas
your marching season is still going on man i wish i was you but talk to her and see what her problem is and try to work it out
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#30161 - 12/07/03 11:59 PM Re: Question... [Re: LHSsl03]
richardb Offline


Registered: 05/08/03
Loc: Atlanta, Georgia
replace her. Unless she's hot. Drumline's need their resident "hot chick". It's what makes it so much fun.
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#30162 - 12/08/03 12:22 AM Re: Question... [Re: richardb]
AMC_Snare_Buddy Offline


Registered: 04/14/03
Loc: Amherst (Near Cleveland) Ohio
Yeah, she's hot. We are in indoor LHS. We have other hot players though too.

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#30163 - 12/08/03 12:23 AM Re: Question... [Re: richardb]
kevin_fu Administrator Offline


Registered: 06/16/00
Loc: Southern MD
if she's a problem, then it seems that the director should've already taken care of it, but if you need to bring it up, then go ahead.

be very careful though. you'll have to word your statements in a way that show's you're bringing this up in the best interest of the line, not for yourself. Also, if you have replacements to pick from, this helps the argument.
Just be careful.
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#30164 - 12/08/03 12:24 AM Re: Question... [Re: kevin_fu]
AMC_Snare_Buddy Offline


Registered: 04/14/03
Loc: Amherst (Near Cleveland) Ohio
The director knows, he actually confronted the line about it on the day she was absent from rehearsal.

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#30165 - 12/08/03 01:03 AM Re: Question... [Re: AMC_Snare_Buddy]
UTM3rdBass Offline


Registered: 12/21/02
Loc: UTM, Martin, Tennessee
Well has anyone tried to motivate her at all. I mean if she had done that there is got to be a reason. Did any of you guys tried to include her in things. There has to be a reason for the fact that she hates it.
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#30166 - 12/08/03 01:07 AM Re: Question... [Re: UTM3rdBass]
drummerbabe Offline


Registered: 10/08/03
Loc: Michigan
if she's holdin the line down, she needs to go.its as simple as that.
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#30167 - 12/08/03 01:09 AM Re: Question... [Re: drummerbabe]
Big_John Moderator Offline


Registered: 02/19/03
Loc: Kentucky
Hmmm... Let's throw you in the Motivation forum.
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#30168 - 12/08/03 01:13 AM Re: Question... [Re: AMC_Snare_Buddy]
AmbassadorSnare Offline


Registered: 11/01/03
Loc: Florida
Quote:

AMC_Snare_Buddy said:
...admitted she doesn't like to play...



If she dos'nt like to play she should leave on her own. Otherwise, give her a chance, don't just replace her immediatly. See if your line can motivate her in any way. She probably just needs a little discipline.

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#30169 - 12/08/03 02:08 AM Re: Question... [Re: AmbassadorSnare]
UTM3rdBass Offline


Registered: 12/21/02
Loc: UTM, Martin, Tennessee
That's right I mean what if she feels left out or something. Maybe that isone of the reasons. Maybe she is shy and I don't know doesn't want to talk or anything. Give her a chance.
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[color:"blue}CHS Front Ensemble (4 Years)[/color"]
MCL Drum and Bugle Corps(2Yrs)
[color:"red"]DCA I&E Part.(05)2nd place Keyboard[/color]
[color:"orange"]UT Martin Drumline 05-Present[/color]
[color:"blue"]West Athens Percussion (06-07)Marimba[/color]
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#30170 - 12/08/03 09:02 PM Re: Question... [Re: AmbassadorSnare]
AMC_Snare_Buddy Offline


Registered: 04/14/03
Loc: Amherst (Near Cleveland) Ohio
Well the problem is over... she quit today. Now we need a replacement.

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#30171 - 12/13/03 07:14 PM Re: Question... [Re: AmbassadorSnare]
FreakieFrolycer Offline


Registered: 04/26/03
Loc: Pennsylvania
If she's hot keep her? LoL.... that is funny. But anywayz i would say either talk to her and see what she thinks should happen... or maybe even get the band director to talk to her. You never know.. maybe something could change. But i wouldn't just kick her off.
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#30172 - 12/14/03 05:09 AM Re: Question... [Re: FreakieFrolycer]
UTM3rdBass Offline


Registered: 12/21/02
Loc: UTM, Martin, Tennessee
There has to be a reason why she quit too. You guys need to treat her like she is one of your drumline family members. There are people in my line that I cannot stand sometimes but when they are going through a rough time I kind of find out what's wrong with them and try to make it better.
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[color:"blue}CHS Front Ensemble (4 Years)[/color"]
MCL Drum and Bugle Corps(2Yrs)
[color:"red"]DCA I&E Part.(05)2nd place Keyboard[/color]
[color:"orange"]UT Martin Drumline 05-Present[/color]
[color:"blue"]West Athens Percussion (06-07)Marimba[/color]
Bruceton Central High Percussion Tech 07-Present

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