If I were in that situation, I would just formulate a plan to go up the chain of command. In all forms of work/business/teaching, a chain of command is in place for situations like this. Gather your (and your line's) thoughts and present it to the Band Director. Next is the Band Boosters / Band Parents (who have a lot more pull than you realize). If that doesn't work, the Principal. No principal in his/her right mind would ever let something like this continue for long.
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Instructor - West Milford HS '97-Present